Erection Minded is my online therapy service for men. It provides a discrete, easily accessible, place where men can obtain professional psychological help. I specialise in the sexual and in psychological matters that bear on the sexual.
I believes passionately in human potential, and in every man’s right to have a healthy sex-life. No matter a client's current situation, I will work with him to become a better him.
I recognise that a man’s erection and sexual experiences can be the elixirs of life. Accordingly, each and every client-case is treated with the utmost seriousness, urgency, and dedication.
I'm not a purveyor of some miracle-treatment or other questionable commodity. Provided is solid psychological help; help that's authoritative, compassionate, and effective.
As reflected in the name 'Erection Minded', I'm forthwright with relevant language. This frankness isn't a gimmick. Rather, it emphasises what the focus is and discourages embarrassment.
Common is for clients to have delayed obtaining external help. Often there’s been ‘denial’ about the sexual problem too. This is all understandable. Such problems can be embarrassing, threatening (over one’s health, future sex life and relationships, self esteem, and identity), and bewildering. The idea of getting help can be alien and highly undesirable. And so much easier is to hope the problem will clear-up by itself or at least by some easy home fix.
If you’re delaying, please consider the good reasons not to:
There’s also the bittersweet reflection that upon getting help you may wish you did so sooner - without delaying. You’ll anyway surely discover that having help isn’t at all the awful thing it can be imagined to be.
These points aren’t made to persuade you to specifically see me. Rather, they’re to encourage fighting delay/resistance over getting help - from whoever you may consider receiving it.
Take heart; by reading this you’ve already made an important step towards the enjoyment and happiness that should be yours.