Erection Minded optimises the psychological basis of clients' sexual functioning. The aim is to equip a client with the mind and behaviours that'll contribute to him being the best he can be sexually.
Unreliable erections are a particular focus of Erection Pychologist. Unreliable erections can be caused by problems with the physical, the hormonal, and the psychological. Erection Minded ensures that psychological factors affecting erections are as healthy as possible.
How one sexually performs is greatly influenced by what's going on in one's mind. Erection Minded will help to tune your thoughts and behaviours to bring out your best sexual fulfilments. Difficulties like premature ejaculation or delayed ejaculation really don't have to be just endured.
Sexual desire has many facets, from the associated physical arousal to feeling lustful and 'horny'. Many psychological and external factors affect it. Changes to it are often temporary, but the change can become the new and unwanted norm. The change is usually a reduction or loss of sexual desire. For many, this is understandably a distressing and consequential matter. Erection Minded can bring to bear years of experience to help with the resolution. ***
Erection Minded helps as necessary with background troubles associated with the sexual matters. The background troubles (which Erection Minded has named SAPPSs: sexually-affecting psychological problems) are often central to the origins and maintenance of sexual problems.
Help includes:
Note, these are but 'obvious' issues. Psychology concerning sex is complex and nuanced. As such, our particular work together may address any of innumerable concerns. There are themes of these across clients; say, with body-image issues, or with a clients feeling a lack of entitlement or orientaion to having pleasure in general. Erection Minded will anyway work with a given client on that client's unique sphere of psychological factors.
No potential background issues are ignored. Erection Minded seeks to explore all psychological factors that could be impairing a client's sexual functioning. These can be skin-deep or deep-rooted, inappreciable or obvious.
Certain behaviours and aspects of a client’s everyday life may be inimical to his sexual health. These will be identified and addressed.
Erection Minded's informing of clients about relevant matters concerning sex and sexual functioning is usually an important component of the therapy. This 'psychoeducation' can be a foundation of our work together. Its value can't be underestimated, including for clients who already feel well informed.
Erection Minded is proudly inclusive and non-discriminatory.
Genuine clients are welcome regardless of their sexual orientation, sexuality, race, nationality, ethnicity, colour, sub-culture, religion and philosphy, political and other opinion, image, physical characteristics and abilities, social status, social class, family advantage or disadvantage, fit or non-fit with societal norms, or possession/non-possession (actual or attribued) of other qualities that elsewhere could engender discrimination, marginalisation, or inequality.
The terms 'man'/'men', 'male', 'he' and 'him' are used. Please forgive any inaccurate interchange of them, inexactness of meaning, or perceived personal exclusion. Their use is for general understanding; correctitude almost unavoidably suffers. Erection Minded upholds that gender (e.g. a 'man') is a socio-cultural construct and that sex (as a clasification assigned at birth; e.g. a 'male') is biological. Trans men and AMAB (assigned male at birth) Gender Diverse adults are warmly welcomed (Erection Minded is not a specialist in helping people of these communuties, but the style/approach may anyway be right for an individual). Don't be deterred because this service most obviously sounds like it's for some narrowly imagined client base.
Clients of Erection Minded are English-speakers and 18+. They can be based in countries other than Britain (though my British-based qualifications may not permit me to purvey therapy to people who reside in certain countries).