Erection Minded
by Dr Paul Northcott
Sexually-focussed psychotherapy for men.
Sexually-focussed psychotherapy for men.
What to do?
Feeling it?
Still interested in having help from me? Feeling it - something good - from here? Have considered other helpers (to check that you can't feel it more from elsewhere)? If you've answered 'yes' to these questions, and have learned from this website all you can, then please don't be nervous about contacting me to arrange an initial consultation.
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Not feeling it?
If you’re not feeling it here from me, then that’s actually good too. For there will be other therapists to find whose style better speaks to you. There are many fantastic workers out there. I thank you anyway for considering my words herein, and I hope they've helped – even in the smallest way – to clarify which therapist's voice will resonate most with you, and with whom you feel you'd likely develop the best rapport and achieve the best results.
Not sure?
At this point you may not know just what to make of Erection Minded, or know whether you want to proceed with getting help at all. Perhaps carry on thinking about your possible needs and carry on learning about forms of help. You can always reconsider using my services in the future. Anyway wonderful is that you're this far into consideration of obtaining help. *
Booking an Initial Consultation
Step 1. Use the contact form or email me to initiate the booking process, indicating days and times when you will be available for an Initial Consultation. (The more flexible you can be the more likely we can have an appointment sooner rather than later.)
Step 2. I reply by email. We proceed to schedule an agreeable date and time for the Initial Consultation phone call.
Step 3. We have the Initial Consulation.
Having had the Initial Consultation, and with us both happy to proceed further, we can decide a mutually agreeable date and time for the first Standard Session.
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The Initial Consultation's nature
I'll learn something of you and what you would like help with, and you'll learn something of me and how I may be able to help.
The tone will be welcoming and congenial. The occasion isn't an examination or formal interview.
You won't be put under any pressure to talk of what you don't want to.
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This phone call serves several purposes:
- You can ask questions.
- The ice is broken.
- Opportunity is provided for your view about Erection Minded to be further informed.
- Whether I'm appropriate for helping you can be gauged.
- An idea can be had of how much benefit you could derive.
- Obvious non-suitability of us working together can come to light.
The session may or may not be our first and last. I'll indicate if I think I can help you and am happy to subsequently see you. Conversely, I'll be forthcoming with a belief that I can't help you.
You'll never be answered or addressed in a way intended to retain you as a client. Even if I thought I could do all but miracles for you, I would only say as much to relay it as something which I believe to be true; not as a act of persuasion.
The call's duration will be up to 15 minutes.
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If you don't wish to book a Standard Session for after the Initial Consultation you won't hear further from me (unless you get in touch again).
The First Standard Session
With us having agreed a Standard Session appointment, I'll email a confirmation of your payment for it, and instruction for our coming video call (which will be on Microsoft Teams).
At the arranged time, I'll video-call you. Our video session will be for 50-60 minutes.
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The Standard Session's nature
This first standard session will not be a jarring contrast to the Initial Consultation. The tone will again be welcoming and friendly. We'll 'pick up where we left things'.
Seemlessly, the help process will have begun.
Again, you won't be pressured to have further sessions. Though if I think that you doing so is in your best interest, I would say so as a matter of belief.
Payment
I principally take payment for each Standard Session by bank transfer. I'll provide the details upon the first booking of a Standard Session. You can, though, pay by PayPal.
I kindly ask that the payment is received within 48 hours of us making each Standard Session booking. I otherwise must assume you don't wish to keep the arrangement.
If you have a particular request, to help you have the video-call, then please ask. Don't worry about what I could think of it. I fully appreciate that at hand is the highly personal, and yet that we'll be comparative strangers. If something - no matter how 'eccentric' - could help you to have the call and be comfortable and at ease, then let's consider it.
Can't attend any booked appointment?
Please let me know ASAP beforehand. This will be done for you, if an emergency arises for me. If you was a 'no show' because of nervousness, and you explain this to me, I'll help you to overcome your anxiety, if you wish to re-book.
Cancellation Policy: If you are a ‘no show’, or cancel within 24 hours prior to a paid-for appointment, I unfortunately won’t be able to make a refund or carry-over payment to a new appointment. (As I'm sure you'll appreciate, the time dedicated to you will have been lost.) If I cancel within 24 hours prior to a paid-for appointment, you can have - by way of my apology - a full refund and a free session ahead.
Contact me
You can write to me via this contact form:
Not a potential client?
I kindly ask for only genuine enquiries from potential clients: those seriously considering having me help them. Unfortunately, I can't provide here a forum for others to learn, discuss, or tell me things. Thank you for abiding by this, which helps the people who need help to get it all the sooner.
If preferred, you can use my email:
Confidentiality
Client privacy is of extreme importance. Erection Minded has never mishandled clients’ personal information or shared it with any person or organisation. Every reasonable precaution is undertaken to maximise its security and confidentiality. Personal information would only be shared in the highly unlikely event of being legally forced to, or if anybody was thought - after thorough consideration - to be at risk of harm.